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90 Days

cindywilson
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thank you to all of you great folks on here, for making my ninety days special. I actually feel like I can do anything. For those of you who are newer to your quit, I want you to know that when you start making progress in your quit, it is totally empowering for you. You feel like a new person, full of hope and no longer a slave to a drug. This is hard thing to describe, but it is almost like getting a second chance at life. You wake up and realize all the possibilities that you never saw before. How many times as a smoker did you not do things because you couldn't smoke or it would be very hard to find a way to smoke? When that cycle of addiction is broken, you can do anything you want, go to a movie, go to that great restaurant that doesn't allow smoking, go to the theater, see a play, go for a walk, be truthful with your doctor for the very first time (come on you know you lie about how much you smoke). You can be around kids all day and not have to find a way to get outside to smoke, go on a trip with your family and not stop every hour for you to smoke....think of the possibilities, that is all I am saying. Sometimes, on here we get bogged down in the hard part of quitting and yes there are definitely challenges along the way, like not kicking that cat, but the fabulous part needs to be mentioned too. You have a great new life!
13 Comments
gmvirtual_gina
Cindy----you are such a big hearted wonderful person!!!! And I would imagine that has been an hand in some of your strength!! This was an awesome blog...you are right we do get caught up in the hard part of quitting and don't notice the great moments!!
cindywilson
Member
I smoked for 38 years and if I can stop so can anybody:)
jan__tx
Member
CONGRATULATIONS!!! you are doing wonderful!!! So proud of your 90 days!!!!!!!!!!
cory7
Member
Cindy,
"How many times as a smoker did you not do things because you couldn't smoke or it would be very hard to find a way to smoke?"
i can relate big time. been there. i agree with your comments. we do much better if we concentrate on the positives. and we only need to get thru today. those "todays" do add it. Congrats again on 90 days!!!
nory
Member
Woooohoooooo, congrats Cindy, you are the bomb girl, great job, to the sweetestlady on here.
cindywilson
Member
thank you everybody, like I said I am doing it, so can everybody!
sue-otts
Member
CONGRATULATIONS!! You ARE doing a GREAT job with this quit!! I agree with everything you have said and it is such a positive thing for all of us! It is the hardest thing I have ever gone through but it is also the greatest accomplishment and feeling that I have ever gone through!! I am proud of you and all of us that ARE doing this!!
Triple digits are right around the corner for you!! WHOOOO HOOOO !!!!
Denise28
Member
Congratulations again and what an awesome and truthful post.
ctm
Member
Congratulations on 90 days Cindy 🙂
grace3
Member
Cindy...you have been thru so many bumps in the road and have come on top over and over again. You are truly a wise supporter and an inspiration to all. It is fantastic enjoying our new life.....
cindywilson
Member
yes it is Grace, and thankyou
spunkie
Member
Boy I just read your 90 days blog and was I impressed it said everything that I am feeling OH the freedom it gives you to not have to smoke is so wonderful you said it so good I am going to copy and paste it to a note I have on my computer so I can read it over and over it just is worded so well.
richard2
Member


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Gone but Not Forgotten. RIP - they leave a legacy of their quit journeys behind as road maps for future members, to prevent the pitfalls, provide the tools and show the hope and possibilities for success at overcoming this addiction at any age at any stage. I quit after nearly dying from trying to smoke. I started when I was 14, I quit while I was pregnant and then when I had my spine fused with a cage. They wouldn't do the surgery unless I quit. I did for almost two years and then on that wrong day, I reached for a puff. Guess what? it has been almost 10 years since then. This last mess I went through, scared me enought to stop and I want to stay that way. I am in my early 50's, have 5 kids and 6 grands that I want to be around for. I love to cook and I was a professional cook. . I have COPD, pleurosy, asthma, chronic sinusitis,reflux, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and God knows what else, from guess what? Smoking right. I made up my mind no matter what I'm through with my abusive ex, Mr. Smoke, he always was a liar and he has no power over me now..... I also realized that I did not create me and I do not have the right to destroy what I did not create. I think you could say I was stubborn about my smoking, nothing anyone said would make me stop. I used every junkie lie in the book, but here is the reality of my life everyday , not what I wanted for my life, how about you?