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4 YEARS!!!!

Storm.3.1.14
Member
4 12 124

Smoking is an addiction. It's a compulsion. It's a habit. It's a behavior.

It's also a priorities disorder.

When I came across that term here at EX, it revolutionized my entire quit! This was the handle I was looking for! This was the working concept that gave me a mental and emotional grip on what I was doing!

Once you take a hard - and honest! - look at how cigarettes and smoking are screwing-up your priorities, you can formulate a new Top 5 Life List...then swear to live by it and protect it.

That's what I did. I got my priorities back in line with my health and my future, and I swore to never dishonor them again.

For me, quitting isn't something that I just let happen to me. No, it was a methodical process and a deliberate decision, and both helped me to stop behaving as if I didn't know the horrible truth.

I got my priorities un-screwed, and that made focusing on my truth all the easier.

A very special thanks to the select Mentors who got me started, all the Elders who kept me going, the newcomers that found strength in something I shared, and the good friends who still walk beside me to this day.

STORM

1,461 Days

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A SIDE NOTE P.S.

So, I have a really exciting announcement: I'm going to Hawaii for nine days to celebrate my 50th birthday!

Not only is Hawaii our 50th State, but it's also my 50th State. That's right - all 50 States & my 50th birthday! 

I'm rewarding myself with a 7-day cruise, and I'm gonna kick back and let the crew handle everything.

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There will be a snorkeling expedition to Molokini...

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An all-day hike through Volcanoes National Park...

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A high-tech luau extravaganza...

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A visit to Pearl Harbor...

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And a bike ride up the (dormant) Diamond Head volcanic crater!

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This is going to be a once-in-a-lifetime dream come true, and I can hardly wait!

My flight leaves at the crack of dawn tomorrow, so I'll be in and out, and in and out all day today before dropping off the radar for over a week. So, until we get to gather again, I wish all of you a journey you'll always cherish!

12 Comments
Giulia
Member

Now there's a 4 year quit token!  A memory to hold forever.  And all 50 states.  Another great goal achieved.  What's left to conquer?

Happiest of 4ths to you, Storm.  March 1st is a day we'll never forget, will we.  It's quite a journey, isn't it?!

Storm.3.1.14
Member

Thank you so very much for stopping by, Giulia! Years ago, you made me promise to keep March 1st sacred...and I have! That vow was one of many that got me here. Thank you!

MarilynH
Member

A super duper Congratulations on your splendiferous 4 glorious years of Smokefree living and counting WTG my friend and Fellow Exer, life really does get better and better without the crutch of cigarettes enjoy your awesome cruise and an early happy 50th birthday Storm, yay for your stupendous quit journey and yay for all of us Exers.....

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duffsherrie
Member

ALOHA!!!

Barbara145
Member

Congrats on 4 years.  I can't believe it has been that long.  You are a fascinating man Storm.  You certainly live life to the fullest. Enjoy Hawaii.  I was there on R&R with my husband who was stationed in Viet Nam in 1969.  He was a green beret, an officer. It was so beautiful.  So glad you are back sharing your eloquent wisdom with all of us.  Take care.

Ladybug--7-3-12

Congrats on 4 Years Smober (& Counting Up)!  Awesome memorable reward!  Jelly belly -- enjoy! 

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elvan
Member

Congratulations on four years and what a BEAUTIFUL reward...50 years, 50th state, I DO like the way you think.  I am so happy for you and so proud of you.  Happy, happy, happy anniversary and may there be MANY more.  Have an amazing trip!

XOXO,

Ellen

Storm.3.1.14
Member

Thank you so very much, Marilyn! 

Storm.3.1.14
Member

I'll take "fascinating" any day, Barbara! And, yes, I'm not afraid of living, that's for sure!

Thank you so much for the anniversary wishes! I'll make a note to return for YOUR next anniversary!

Storm.3.1.14
Member

Thank you, my no-nonsense, tell-it-like-it-is Mentor! Thanks for keeping me cognizant, and for threatening to spank me with a snowshoe if I strayed. Hahaha! 

Storm.3.1.14
Member

Thank you, Ellen, for always being a nourishing influence on my quit...and life!

I'm gonna send you a text now, to show you my latest "trophy" to commemorate 4 Years.

Hugs & smooches!

And aloha!

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

I was missing you and starting looking for you and you are gone.  But what a way to go.  Oh my congrats on the 50's.  You are a blessing.  Thank you for all that you have done do and will do.  Safe travels my friend.