Daily Pledge, Bonfires and Quit Celebrations: Traditions born from the members
Happy May everyone, welcome to theMay Daily Pledge where we meet every day to take another person's hand and strengthen our commitment, say "Yes" to "I CAN and I will persevere no matter what!"
PLEDGE - DEFINITION
"a solemn promise or undertaking"
verb form: "commit ... by a solemn promise".
"something given as security for the performance of act"
What promises that you've made have you fulfilled in your life? Any? Several?
What commitments that you've made have you honored? Do you honor them still?
What have you given as assurance for the performance of this pledge you've committed to? Anything? Everything?
I wrote a little about quit tokens in /blogs/Giulia-blog/2013/09/10/how-precious-is-your-quit?sr=search&searchId=f7e3501c-8b9d-4d04-ae72-0...
How precious is YOUR quit? How dedicated your commitment? How solemn is your promise? Are there allowances in your commitment, reasons why you can't or are unable to fulfill your pledge? (Pssst - reasons are just excuses.) If so, perhaps those are things to think about and take a special look at. Especially if this isn't your first attempt at this quitting thing.
Quitting takes a certain amount of interior work. I've found that the "self" I call ‘me’ and identify with has changed over time with experience. That "self" that was a smoker is now a foreigner to me. And I'm glad of it.
Experience really IS the greatest teacher. And quitting is an ongoing learning experience.
Study well. Learn much. Grow much. Whether you're a newcomer pledging or an Elder with years smoke free, the pledge - the commitment - is no less important nor potent.
May you be forever free.
How to pledge:
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The Daily Promises (in honor of Jim Taddeo who posted this back in 2009)
My faith and my gratitude for all that I have been blessed with will shine through in my attitudes and in my actions.
Monday's Promise: Responsibility
I will take complete responsibility for my health, my happiness, my success, and my life, and will not blame others for my problems or predicaments.
Tuesday’s Promise: Accountability and Self Love
I will not allow low self-esteem, self-limiting beliefs, or the negativity of others to prevent me from achieving my authentic goals and from becoming the person I am meant to be.
Wednesday’s Promise: Determination
I will do the things I’m afraid to do, but which I know should be done. Sometimes this will mean asking for help to do that which I cannot do by myself.
Thursday’s Promise: Contribution
I will earn the help I need in advance by helping other people now, and repay the help I receive by serving others later.
I will face rejection and failure with courage, awareness, and perseverance, making these experiences the platform for future acceptance and success.
Saturday’s Promise: Perspective
Though I might not understand why adversity happens, by my conscious choice I will find strength, compassion, and grace through my trials.
Good morning Everyone. Cousin-Itt I'll take your hand. I pledge not to smoke today or ever again. I offer my hand to the next Ex in line
Gai C I've got your hand and pledge no smoking. I extend my other hand to the next exer.
Thanks for the hand Kkplayhouse . I pledge not to smoke , and extend my hand to the next .
Happy Thursday Grmom2631 I will gladly take your hand and pledge not to smoke today. I will offer another hand to the next pledge...Colleen 521 DOF
Good morning Grmom2631 Welcome to the Ex. I gladly accept your hand and pledge not to smoke today. Extending my hand to the next Exer pledging.
Barb
786DOF
Hi Barb! I'm grateful to take your hand today and make the pledge not to smoke today, no matter what. Offering my hand of support to the next person who joins us in pledging.
Dave
603 DOF
Hi, Giulia. I will take your hand and promise to remain smoke-free and extend my left hand for the next person.
Good Morning, Sharlet! I gladly grab your hand as I pledge to remain a non-smoker today. I now extend my free hand for the next pledger.
Blessings,
Michael
Hi Sharlet71, I will gladly take your hand and extend my other hand to the next person in line. I pledge to not smoke today! I had a trigger night before last. I actually told that person that I was not going to let them ruin my quit again! Tanuaj DOF 24
Hi Tanuaj... I will gladly take your hand in agreement to not smoke today, no matter what, and extend my other hand to the next in line who chooses to pledge the same