Daily Pledge, Bonfires and Quit Celebrations: Traditions born from the members
"Just stick to your commitment and be here DAILY!!! It can't be here and there. It will NEVER work that way!"(Shawn)
Your quit must take priority in your life. Especially in the beginning. It can't be a casual trying. It must be an active DOING. Part of that DOING is making a daily pledge. It’s a little piece of commitment glue that helps to make your quit sticky and holds you, like magnetic shoes in outer space, to your non smoking path. It’s a great tool to have in your Quit Kit. And all you have to say is “Today, I will not smoke.” Thinking in terms of “forever” can be rather daunting, so - just pledge - for today. One day at a time. That's how quits are built. Seriously. Whether it's a silent commitment you make to yourself, or a public one here on this pledge page. They're both a promise from that Best of you to keep listening to that Best of you. And we're here to hold your hand and pledge with you if you want to do it publicly. Whether you've a week quit or 14 years quit - we're each holding the promise of commitment made in each other's hands. It's precious. It's a strong chain of honor. Don't take it lightly.
Here's to strength and perseverance! May you be forever free!
How to pledge:
Go to top of page and click the link for Latest Reply. | |
Or you can go to the last page by clicking on the last page of the pagination links. |
Click on the Reply bubble and make your pledge to the person at the end and then offer your free hand to the next pledge. |
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The Daily Promises (in honor of Jim Taddeo who posted this back in 2009)
My faith and my gratitude for all that I have been blessed with will shine through in my attitudes and in my actions.
Monday's Promise: Responsibility
I will take complete responsibility for my health, my happiness, my success, and my life, and will not blame others for my problems or predicaments.
Tuesday’s Promise: Accountability and Self Love
I will not allow low self-esteem, self-limiting beliefs, or the negativity of others to prevent me from achieving my authentic goals and from becoming the person I am meant to be.
Wednesday’s Promise: Determination
I will do the things I’m afraid to do, but which I know should be done. Sometimes this will mean asking for help to do that which I cannot do by myself.
Thursday’s Promise: Contribution
I will earn the help I need in advance by helping other people now, and repay the help I receive by serving others later.
I will face rejection and failure with courage, awareness, and perseverance, making these experiences the platform for future acceptance and success.
Saturday’s Promise: Perspective
Though I might not understand why adversity happens, by my conscious choice I will find strength, compassion, and grace through my trials.
Thanks for your hand mpnaegle!
I pledge not to smoke today and extend my other hand to the next inline.
Lynne 1211 dof
I gladly accept your hand, Mark, and pledge with you to not smoke today. I also extend my free hand to the next who chooses to pledge with us.
Good Morning. I accept your hand Suzy and pledge not to smoke today. I extend my hand to the next ex-smoker.
Matt, DOF 1
Good Afternoon mattvoor99 I take your hand as I pledge not to smoke today. I offer my other hand to the next with friendship and support. Good for you Matt! 1 DOF is wonderful!
Christine
2 DOF
Hi Christine I’m really happy to take your hand and support you in your quit. I offer my other hand to the next person to pledge with us. NOPE
Barb 890 DOF
Good morning Barb102 I gladly accept your hand and pledge not to smoke today. Extending my hand to the next Exer pledging.
Barb
837 DOF
Thank you for you hand this morning Barbscloud as I pledge no smoking for me today
I offer my free hand to the next winner in line
Hi Cousin-Itt, I shall take your hand and pledge not to smoke today as I extend my other hand to the next
Good Saturday Morning Karen333 I will gladly take your hand and pledge not to smoke today. I will offer my other hand out to the next pledge...Colleen 572 DOF
Good morning Everyone. sweetplt I'll take your hand. I pledge not to smoke today or ever again. I offer my hand to the next Ex in line