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Daily Pledge, Bonfires and Quit Celebrations: Traditions born from the members

Giulia
Member

SEPTEMBER DAILY PLEDGE 2020

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HOLD ON

A blog I wrote nine years ago, spurred on by another member’s blog is still relevant today, I think.   How Deep is Your Commitment?  Ironically this person relinquished her quit after five years because she was drinking and a friend offered her a cigarette. Even long-term quits are fragile under the influence of alcohol. 

This daily pledge is a tool. Not just to come here every day and promise not to smoke, but any time you feel like your quit is jeopardy. That’s the most important time to come here and reach out for the person’s hand who pledged before you. Do it every hour if you need to. Even if nobody has chimed in since your last pledge, grab your own hand. Grab the hand of the YOU that wants the best for you. The YOU that says, “I can do this, I promise to do this. I won’t let go of this.” Hug yourself tightly.

There is strength in numbers. We’re here for you. Just grab a hand, keep your commitment and know that you CAN do this. Type a blog with the word Help. People will come running. You’re not alone.

 

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  How to pledge: 


  1. Go to top of page and click the link for Latest Reply.
    Or you can go to the last page by clicking on the last page of the pagination links.
  2. Click on the Reply bubble and make your pledge to the person at the end and then offer your free hand to the next pledge.
  3. You've made your pledge.  Come back tomorrow and pledge again.
  4. Check out this handy quit calendar to calculate your DOF!  EX Quit Calculator or check out My Quit Plan.

As you go through your day you know that you have these two people with you and all of you are keeping each other strong. How cool is that! 

 

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Honda600
Member

Welcome everyone. From one day to the next no one can promise anything. Stuff happens. We are all trying our best to kick this disgusting, expensive and life shortening habit. This site helps, just knowing your not alone in this very difficult fight, literally for your life. I have only been 2 weeks in and still have bad cravings and even times when I say why bother. I don't want to smoke anymore but I sure would like a cigarette right now. Will not do it. Longest I ever gone without a cigarette in 35 years. I can promise to keep going and keep trying my best!

Christine13
Member

Good for you Honda600!  Congratulations on 2 weeks quit.

I pledge not to smoke today, I offer my hand to the next with friendship and support.

Christine

MarilynH
Member

I'll very happily take your hand Chris and pledge to remain Smokefree while EXtending my free hand to the next person in line. 

Marilyn 2243 DOF 

SuzyQ411
Member

thumbs up public domain image.jpgHang in there Honda600‌.. you are doing great!!

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SuzyQ411
Member

Thank you for your hand of support and encouragement Marilyn MarilynH‌ I extend my free hand to the next who also chooses to pledge they will not smoke today. One day at a time, we will make it 

~ Suzy

Day # 241 / 3,615 cigarettes not smoked / WHOOPIE!!

Gai.C
Member

Good morning Everyone. @SuzyQ411  I'll take your hand.  I pledge not to smoke today or ever again.  I offer my hand to the next Ex in line 

Cousin-Itt
Member

Good Morning All

  Thank you for your hand this morning Gail Gai.C as I pledge no smoking for me today here in Southwest Ohio

I offer my free hand to the next Winner in Line

Wishing Everyone a Safe, Enjoyable Smoke Free Friday

Kkplayhouse
Member

Thanks for your hand as I too pledge no smoking Cousin Itt. I extend my other hand to the next winning exer.

sweetplt
Member

Good Friday morning Kkplayhouse I will gladly take your hand and pledge not to smoke today...I will offer my other hand out to the next pledge...Colleen 641 DOF 

MarilynH
Member

I'll very happily take your hand Colleen and pledge to remain Smokefree while EXtending my free hand to the next person in line. 

Marilyn 2244 DOF or something like that