By Everyone today my soon to be husband bday today an I been up since 9am to cook his bday supper fried chicken an pistoletes and fries an then a German cake for his bday hes a drunk an he doesn't listen to me he doesn't care how bad he hurts me and I'm marrying him um no I took my ring off an there's not gonna be a wedding at all! I'm feeling like smoking y'all like real bad craving like just throw my hands up an say f it an just smoke bc he's drinking an he told he he wouldn't at all an he's back drinking but doesn't want me to smoke at all but he's not holding up his end of the bargain at all I'm done y'all forral done
I'm sorry you went to so much trouble and he is drunk but I can remember food tasting real good in that condition.
Do you know why he drinks. If his close family has alcoholics and he was raised around them, perhaps he has no other knowledge of how to cope. Have a talk with him. It isn't fair to you if you're married to someone who drinks until they can't think straight.
Hugs
I would postpone the wedding for awhile if it were me.