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DAMN IT!!!! THAT IS ENOUGH!!!!

pir8fan
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What are we here for???? We are here to support each other!! Help each other!! That is it!!!!

We have crowned no King! We have elected no President! We have not been over thrown by any Dictators! We have not wittnessed the birth of a Messiah!! We are a group of people with a common goal!! Everybody has a totally different journey to that goal!! My way might not work for you and your way might  not work for somebody else! This is a trip to the top of the mountian! If it is a race, it is one everyone can win. I can not be more victorious by throwing you off the mountain!!

We have a lot of strong willed people here! But if my will is stronger than yours that does not make me better than you!! The site belongs to all and all should be welcome here!! If you have an idea, please present it in a civil manner and lets discuss it! Every time someone start issueing orders civility goes out the window. Instead of "you should not" what is wrong with "maybe we should consider". Let take our disagreement to a private level! Dumping our dirty laundry into a public forum does no good for anyone!! It is OK to have different opinions!! Let's discuss them. But I do not get to order anyone to do anything! And I am not taking orders!

Have mutual respect for each other!! We have ran off some pretty bad people. We have also ran off some very damn good people! I am tierd of it! So, "Maybe we should consider" keeping disagreement on a personal level!

I will remain available on a personal level to entertain disagreements for the next few hours. In the mean time if you can't say anything nice to your fellow exer's, then "Maybe we should consider" not saying anything at all!!

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