I can be abrupt but it's not out of meaness

Blog Post created by jonescarp.aka.dale.Jan_2007 on Aug 27, 2017

      When I was on tour right out of high school, they put two of us in a room and rotated the schedule weekly.

      There was one guy that nobody could stand. No one wanted to have anything to do with him let alone share a space for a week.


He Was A Whiner. He Whined About Everything.

The End Of Every Sentence Was A Whine.


      When it came time for us to room together, we were in Manila.

      After about two days of this I told him, we needed to talk. And we sat down and I asked him if he knew why people avoided him?


      I explained that everything he said was said in a whine.


      You know what? He never whined again and everyone liked him because of it.

      That honesty CHANGED HIS LIFE.

      He is a very successful and happy person in Los Angeles.


      If You Can Be This Honest With Yourself, You Will Succeed.