by organizing we give things structure but, the structure is in our minds.
do those plates know you are stacking them in the same way when you put them away at night?
does the grass know it's been mowed?
does a lighter miss cigarettes when they aren't together?
the structure is ours.
A cigarette is an inanimate object. we chose it in our lives and then it structured them.
We have to disassemble that part of our structure and make a new one.
It becomes easier to quit as we accept this.