*someone wrote fake it 'til you make it on here the other day.
You have the roadmap and a team of mechanics. Why don't you just decide to do it?
Get an attitude of willingness, realize it's going to be something special finding this new normal because you are in uncharted territory, it may be uncomfortable but you've got to give it time and, fake it 'til you make it! 'til that person who doesn't think of smoking shows up.