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There are three stages of the thought process

JonesCarpeDiem
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1. The thought. We have thoughts all day long that we don't follow through on. If we followed through on every thought that crossed our minds, the jails would not be big enough and we'd all be wearing electronic ankle bracelets.

2. Consideration. That time period between a passing thought and taking action on that thought.

3. Deciding to do what you were thinking of and initiating action.

So, when it comes to not smoking, at which stage do we need to stop the process to avoid smoking? (the answer is stage one, the "passing thought" stage. Once you start considering, you may talk yourself into smoking-This is why we stress distracting yourself and teach you distractions)

If you have quit smoking and don't have any cigarettes around there are many steps that must be taken before you actually light one up and smoke.
1. Get dressed to go to the store.
2. Find the car keys.
3. Get in your car.
4. Drive to the store.
5. Get out of your car and walk in.
6. Ask for the cigarettes
7. Get out your money or card.
8. Get matches or a lighter
9. Open the pack of cigarettes.
10. Trash the top wrappings.
11. Tap the pack to get one to come out.
12. Put the pack away.
13. Put one in your mouth.
14. Light it and inhale.

You could choose to stop at any of the first 13 steps so there are no excuses.

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.