English Español
Help
cancel
Turn on suggestions
Auto-suggest helps you quickly narrow down your search results by suggesting possible matches as you type.
Showing results for 
Show  only  | Search instead for 
Did you mean: 

Share your quitting journey

HOPE (we all need it sometimes

JonesCarpeDiem
Member
0 11 17
‎11-17-2010 12:04 PM

Hope

We all like to say we’re fine pretend we have no cares
But then there’s the other side that we guard like a bear
Our lives unravel constantly just as each day is long
So if you’ve tried your best and you’re still up against a wall know

There is hope    In the smile of  a child
Don’t give up… it gets better in awhile…
Just hang on for a moment more And I’ll throw you a rope
The one thing you can’t give up on is hope

 

0 Kudos
11 Comments
About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.