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I Have a Dream!

Thomas3.20.2010
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  As we Celebrate Martin Luther King's 50th Anniversary of the March on Washington, we celebrate the BEST of ourselves. We reach out for our potential BEST just as he had in his short, enlightened inspiring life! Dr. King was intelligent, yes and he was charismatic but more than that he had Faith in his fellow human being and the dream that dwelled in his mind! While we were smoking, we had a dream that seemed so far fetched - a dream for FREEDOM! We had an inkling of our potential selves, a memory of the FREEDOM we relinquished by taking that first puff and that ever since, most of us for decades, was being puffed away with addiction. That simple little thought made us strive for FREEDOM - the FREEDOM to be as Our Creator wishes we would be and knows we can be! As MLK states,  "If we are to go forward, we must go back and rediscover those precious values - that all reality hinges on moral foundations and that all reality has spiritual control." "Everything that we see is a shadow cast by that which we do not see."
   
   Many of us have looked under every crook and cranny of our own minds for the means to gain our FREEDOM until we found the PRIZE! A few others were able to find the way more directly. there are those of us who are still fearful of what we might be giving up but as MLK said,   "We must build dikes of courage to hold back the flood of fear." And most of us are still searching but refuse to give up! MLK proclaimed,  "We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope." We each had our own motivations for this quest for FREEDOM but what we had in common is the goal or as MLK said,  "We may have all come on different ships, but we're in the same boat now." We were motivated by the fact that  "a lie cannot live" and we knew on some level (some more conscious than others) that we were living a lie. 
   
  
    To reach that goal takes a lot of human fortitude.  As MLK said,   "Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle. And so we must straighten our backs and work for our FREEDOM." He tells us,    "Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable... Every step toward the goal of justice requires sacrifice, suffering, and struggle; the tireless exertions and passionate concern of dedicated individuals." Too many people see quitting as an event, just as today's celebration is an event and back to "business as usual" tomorrow! But quitting brings change and change is not inevitable! We must straighten our backs and work our quit journey each and every day. Still,    "All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem." That's a BIG ticket so it can only be done one day at a time, giving just for today commitment, focus, and determination - keeping always our eyes on the prize - FREEDOM and remember these words,    "I know, somehow, that only when it is dark enough can you see the stars."
  
     
  
   Many of us have EXperienced the very personal loss of one or more family member, friend, loved one due to the wicked consequences of smoking related illness. It's absolutely devastating! And some of us have been struck down, debilitated, even left disabled, by smoking related illness. I happen to be one of them. If at times, our voices are shrill, it's because we wish to spare you! We want you to see past the Addictive lie that "smoking is a harmless vice", to know that smoking related illness is very real! But life isn't about not dying - it's about living well! Again, MLK said   ,"The quality, not the longevity, of one's life is what is important."Also,   "There is nothing more tragic than to find an individual bogged down in the length of life, devoid of breadth." "Like anybody, I would like to live a long life. Longevity has its place. But I'm not concerned about that now. I just want to do God's will. And He's allowed me to go up to the mountain. And I've looked over. And I've seen the Promised Land. I may not get there with you. But I want you to know tonight, that we, as a people, will get to the promised land!" He said those famous words on April 3, 1963. On the next day, he was assassinated. I won't begin to speak for the other elders who continue to visit this site - I speak for myself alone, but these words perfectly EXpress my thoughts when I come here again and again and do my best to share my DREAM of FREEDOM for all of you, for all people caught up in the lie of Nicotine Addiction! 
  
     
  
   Yes, folks, this struggle we are in is just as life and death, just as critical to the dignity of living as MLK's! And yes, I gladly give the BEST of myself when I come here and ask, "Wouldn't you like to live in FREEDOM? MLK challenges me with these words,   "An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity." He urges me on saying,   "Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be. This is the interrelated structure of reality." I, Thomas, have seen the Promised Land and believe that we, as a Community, will get there! Join me! I will walk beside you and together we will go up the mountain called FREEDOM! 
  
     
  
    "The time is always right to do what is right."
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About the Author
63 years old. 20 year smoker. 11 Years FREE! Diagnosed with COPD. Choosing a Quality LIFE! It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. -Galatians 5:1