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Words Matter

JACKIE1-25-15
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What you say to yourself matters.  If you are constantly feeding your brain negative thoughts.

What will you get? ….Negative results. 

I think it is time to address self-talk.

I won’t be long winded this morning I know we all have things to do.

 So Let’s just look at a few.

 “I can’t do this”. ( you have already given up).  Say Yes I can

“This is hard”.  (That is a reality yes but say no weapon formed against me will prosper, yes I can!.)

“I am struggling”. (Sounds like you will never make it).

   Change your words say what is going on so we can address it.  

“I will never make it”.  “Say Yes I can make it”.

“I never could do anything right”.   Believe that you can do all things.

“I am so stupid”.  You are doomed if you keep saying this one.   What a man thinks so is he.

“I look terrible”.  How about a makeover every now and then won’t hurt. Lol  New way new life.

 Get unstuck out of your rut. Make yourself pretty.

   Tell yourself good things

“I can make it.  I can do this,I am beautiful, i am smart,  I am a nonsmoker.  No matter what comes I will not fail.  I am good at what I do.  I am worth it”.  

Get the idea.  Change what you are telling yourself and change your life. One of life’s greatest motivational tools I have found is self-talk.  Use it. It WORKS! I created my own mantra.  Make your own.

My mantra: Not in my hands, not on my lips, not on my tongue, not in my lungs, not in my throat, I will not choke, not up not nose, not in my clothes.   I use to sing, cheer, hum, recite, blog, think, and believe it.

I am a nonsmoker”.  Say it with fierceness. 

How could I ever smoke again if I vowed never to put one in my hand?  Get it? Create your own self-talk it works. It has taken me a long way. 685 days of freedom. No matter what NOPE.  Hang tough, type HELP when you need it. Protect your quit.


 

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Lay aside every weight that may be slowing you down. Make up your mind not to allow doubt cause you to stumble. You can do this! Do not allow fear , False Expectations Appearing Real to hold you down. You can do this! Break the chains of addiction, forgive yourself for ever smoking. move forward and start loving yourself more each day by staying smokefree. Put aside worry, anxiety, depression, any EXcuse that you would use to not get in or stay in the race of freedom. Take one day at a time, one step if necessary. Run the race diligently, steady and sure with endurance. Believe that you can. Keep your eye on the prize. Hang tough, stay close, be mindful, never give in, never give up.