Hi all, I am a 48 year old who has smoked for over 30 years, I am doing the ex plan and have chosen oct 22 as my quit date, that is my birthday, happy b'day to me''', I know it won't be easy, my husband is a smoker and will not quit, he also refuses to put the ashtrays away etc. always did have to have things his way, but I will not let that discourage me, I will quit, Help,'''' I could use all the support and encouragement You all can muster up, and a laugh or two wouldn't hurt either.