Give and get support around quitting
Who is getting tired of all the moderating, censoring and even our pm's are being effected now, what's next?
This is my take -
When a comment or blog of mine goes into moderation (for some reason it is rare for me - I know for others it is not so rare), if it is feasible to do so, I delete it and try again. Normally it will go thru the second time - if I make a minor change to it. I realize it is not always possible to do this with a lengthy blog or comment. Perhaps you can copy it before you delete it and try it that way so not to lose your content.
If I use a word that gets ******ed, people can use their imagination and fill in the blank - lol. I do have an extensive vocabulary when it comes to dirty words - but I have tried to work on cutting down on using them the last year or so. That is not really a big deal to me.
As far as private messages go - I treat the PM system here the same as my work e-mail. I do not put anything out there that I would have a problem with admin or my boss reading. I do not think that admin or my boss reads all of my messages or emails but the possibility and technology is there. They can if they want to.
MOO - the more time that we spend on these issues, the less time that we have to spend on the real reason that we are here - to help people quit smoking and remain quit.
MOO is EXACTLY the same as @Jennifer_Quit_05-01-14
Agreed..but aren't we all adults here. Quitting is difficult...and we can't be grammiicly expressing how we feel during our quit process.
I know I'm personally not offended when I read how some describes their quit in their day!!
Well Jennifer-Quit ,I'm really hoping that Administration will work with us and our grievances so we can get back to helping people quit smoking and Remain quit, I sure don't like being frustrated when all I'm trying to is be helpful.
Yea.
MOO - the more time that we spend on these issues, the less time that we have to spend on the real reason that we are here - to help people quit smoking and remain quit.
But I'm in agreement with Jennifer. I think it's time to move on. indingrl Diane Joy's blog (which I just came upon from two days ago) reminded me of that. Am I being helpful, or causing strife? I have caused some strife, I'm sure, by expressing my opinion (which I felt needed to be heard) because I care deeply about this community and am concerned for it's health. But now I think our time is better spent in attending to the needs of those who are here to learn how to save their lives.
Yup I know that you are right so I will get over my hissy fit now since you and everyone else are done and have said what you wanted then I'll follow in line like a good little girl and do as I am told......
I am just too tired to fight about it...I will absolutely NOT rewrite or copy and paste my comments that go into moderation. That's a bit much.
I agree sweet friend, sleep my dear Ellen I'm tired myself and frustrated but I think I might just be exhausted enough to sleep, gentle hug from me to you elvan