Sandy,
Follow the program on this site. Also, call the American Cancer Society at 877-YES-QUIT and join their free program. They'll send you a series of three small books to get you on the right path to being smoke free. Get the patch! ACS will send you free patches. They will also give you a free counselor to talk to over the phone.
These programs will work if you work them and follow them to the letter. I smoked for 16 years and tried quitting three or four different times, but I never followed a specific program or followed it exactly as directed.
Well, I have now and I've been quit for 7 days now and I'm doing great! I know 7 days may not seem like a long time, but it is a huge accomplishment.
I know if you can make it 3 days you can make it 7 days! Just one day, or even one hour, at a time.