Bree19 , you touched my heart while I was reading this because you were writing directly from your heart and soul and I am so much like you in how I give of myself even after I'm totally drained from whatever I might be doing if someone needs me I'm there for them but we'll have to try to start thinking about ourselves a little more but at least in your quit and mine too our quits are for us and you my friend are doing great as long as you stick with N.O.P.E , you cannot fail because you are winning the war against the dreaded nicotine poison one precious smoke free day at a time. I know there's people so much worse off that has more on their plate but is doing well in their quit and that's fantastic but when you're in the throws of a horrendous craving that's the last thing on a persons mind, just remember this is one powerful addiction that's trying 
I know what you mean, Bree! Even my profession is care providing for other people! But I have learned through Smoking Cessation that making myself a priority is worth it! I have also learned to set limits and that has made me a happier person! I finally figured out that it also empowers that other person to find their own ways and tools to get things done! WIN - WIN! Right now, it might seem like a stretch from giving up the Sickerettes to Loving Myself but I assure you that in my Life they are intertwined!
Just start today by putting your QUIT first! That in itself is a Huge Step forward!
