You nailed it entirely. I have overcome many things in my life. Huge, huge addictions that almost killed me, yet here I am...still smoking cigarettes. Come on! I had everything working against me in other battles and everything going for me now. I own property, I have money, recently married, and a fantastic job as a director...what the hell? Why am I smoking? What is it? I want to know. Everytime I light a cigarette now...there is guilt, shame, anger, rage even...yet satisfaction, comfort, pleasure. I get it...the brain, the receptors.....but its more than that. There is something more to it. Something I am associating with smoking that has defeated me.
Its funny (but not funny really) because I think there should be laws that if you are a parent you cannot be a smoker or expose your children to smoke in anyway. Shit, I think you should have to have a license to be a parent!!! Reward citizens who wait and tax those who dont. If you have a child, and you smoke, abuse substances or are chemically dependent, are a felon, have not had a stable job for at least three years, your household (does not matter if there are two parents or same sex parents) does not make at minimum of 40,000 dollars a year, do not have a health insurance plan, a life insurance plan, etc. THEN YOU SHOULD NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE CHILDREN. Do you know what Iowa pays alone in Medicad babies? Food stamps? Welfare/FIP/TANIF? Child care vouchers, Housing vouchers? You would shit yourself. Take the money and reward those who are making positive decisions. This is going to sound cruel and I cannot BELIEVE I am about to say it, but there is a thing called Natural Selection. The beauty of evolution and evolving, is that the strong survive and become civilized. If our strong minds are dying out because we do not control the system and the "breeding" (for lack of a better word) of the weak, and then turn around and CREATE a trap that keeps them surviving in that cycle, they will take over and no brilliant minds will be left to save it. Controlling the population is important. Educating and developing programs that WORK, not trap humanity. All of us are important and all of us matter, but somewhere along the lines...something happened.
Spoken like a true counselor right there.
I dont even know where that came from or why I said it. Its just how I feel.
This is the most I have talked to anyone in....three years? Four? Who knows. Other than my husband.
I too, have let the "trap" of others and how it has effected my community, my state, the nation and the world let me believe that what I do does not count. SO why quit smoking? (here is where the excuse comes in) WHy quit smoking to stay around and watch nothing change? Nothing progress!
I personally have been defeated by the justice system in my life. Its amazing, Louise (but not really), because a man who brutally raped me, kidnapped me, and tortured me now lives 20 miles from me and there is nothing I can do. Sex offenders are roaming free, offending again and again, yet our priorities in policy is smoking?!
Pardon my language, but FUCK THAT! Thats not fair! Thats not what is important right now! They say an alcoholic effects at least 100 people. How many people is my smoking effecting? And how many people are the sex offenders effecting?
Woe, where did all this come from?
I am sorry. I do appreciate you talking to me though.