Everyone does their best to help others quit smoking. Keeping that in mind is important.
This is a great community . I have a long quit now but started at day one like everyone . Time had past but I don't forget my early days quit . The emotions , the fear , the anxiety , it is all overwhelming . You have a lot on your plate with quitting and from what you have shared with us many other things.
I am not sure what happened that your husband would buy cigs for you , only you know that , but I hope things are going better for you today and for your husband.
My ex was a non smoker . We didn't see eye to eye on smoking because he never smoked therefore he never understood the gravity of smoking . He always wanted what was best though ... me to quit smoking . Quitting is not easy and quitting can make us quite miserable for a while . I'm sure our quitting affects the spouses in ways we don't quite understand as well . It's does us good to remember addiction will cause turmoil . It wants us back . I hope you both can come up with a plan that will be something that can be compromise and help each other . I always think quiet spaces in your home and go to safe peaceful places in our thoughts where there is no smoking are nice when addiction rears its ugly .
If my ex were a smoker I doubt he would like that I was quitting cause it would put pressure on him to do the same . Addiction hurts more than just us .
I hope that you will continue to seek and welcome the support here from all of us because from my experience ex smokers people really do care for their fellow quitsters and want to stay smoke free not just for themselves but also help others stay smoke free .
Maki .
