Give and get support around quitting
Am I wrong to decline a date with a smoker? Part of me feels like a hypocrite.
So friends what do you think?
I have a few EXtra silly thoughts. If you just want to go out on a date, just to go out on a date and not look for a future relationship, set your boundaries. (NO SMOKING!!!!!) It probably would be no date at all. lol js
I wish he didn't smoke! He is a bit older than me (13 years) but he is a successful business owner. His house is GORGEOUS! Last year at his x-mas party, he hired a piano player to play at his house all night, had waiters. Amazing!! He offered to let me borrow one of his 4 cars because he knows mine is old and I am driving it to Michigan this month. He is well off obviously, not bad looking, my height (6'0) but he SMOKES!!! He has been a client of mine for 15 years. Oh well. There are other fish in the sea...so I am told. Hahahaha
Oh. where at in Michigan! Do come visit!
Have you mentioned to him your concerns about smoking?
But you're not a smoker. No reason to feel hypocritical just because smoking is something you used to do.
Keep on keepin on,
I was gonna' say, "depends on how desperate you are" But then I remembered this image:
blech - nevermind!
I vote this as BEST ANSWER, lol
Me too
Hahaha. Yup, not that desperate! LOL
YUCK, I remember dating smokers before I was a smoker (caveman era) and I think I sort of liked the smell...I have completely turned that around. I don't like to even HUG someone who is a smoker...I just can't stand that smell. I don't think it's hypocritical at all.