Thanks for sharing your challenges, Carolyn! Learning to face very difficult situations without smoking is all part of the Smoking Cessation process.
First, I recommend that you put yourself and your Quit first! When you're not doing this you cannot be effective for those you advocate.
Second, if you haven't already, read up on your workplace policies. Document, document, document! When you think that you are ready to make your case you will have what you need to be credible and convincing.
Third, write it all out. Edit several times keeping in mind the consequences to you and to your students and determine adjustments based on what changes you actually can make and cannot make. [Remember, you still haven't visibly done anything.] Find a trustworthy advisor or two to read your final draft, give you feedback and help you edit even further.
Now, you are ready to become public. Always follow protocols of reporting. Fasten your seat belt and stay centered - constantly providing yourself the best self-care you can!
Take what you like and leave the rest. To be helpful is my only goal.
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
enjoying one moment at a time;
accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
that I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
forever in the next.
Amen.
And sometimes we have to accept that we are not the vessel of change, too! And that's OK. It means we trust the Higher Power to correct wrongs in his/her own way and time. God is never late!
Please reflect on your choices - I know you will make wise decisions!
Congratulations on 41 Days Smoke FREE!
