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The Key to Stopping Smoking

Dr_Hays
Mayo Clinic
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Stopping smoking is difficult for many people.  However, there is a key to success.  Once you learn this key, stopping won’t become easy, but it may become manageable.  This key can help tip the scale in favor of quitting rather than continuing to use tobacco.  This key, when used to its utmost potential, is a very powerful tool.  Are you wondering what the key is?

 

Okay here it is…the key is listening to music.  Really it is!  Not just any music, but the music that you love most.  The music that makes you feel excited when you hear it, the music that gives you goose-bumps, the music that makes you want to stand up and cheer, cry, dance, and sing!

 

No wait a second, the key is actually physical activity!  Not just any old physical activity, but the kind of physical activity that you LOVE!  The kind to which you look forward, can’t wait to do, and always feel better after having done!

 

Hang on...the key is really talking to your friends and socializing!  Not just any old friends or acquaintances, but the friends with whom you have the most fun, connect most strongly, and whom you would not hesitate to call or take a call from at 2 am.

 

So you probably figured out that the truth is that there is more than one key.  The connection between them however, is that there is only one place to find any of them and that is inside YOU!  We all have things in life that we feel passionate about, make us most excited, and brighten our lives.  Whatever those are for you, they are part of your key to stopping tobacco.  

 

There are certainly other things that can help with stopping - medications and counseling - and it’s recommended to use them too.  However, people sometimes forget the power of their own passion and the boost it can provide to their spirit and happiness.  Consider taking a moment to think of one thing that drives you.  Where can you make a little time for this positive activity in your life today?  

 

21 Comments
JonesCarpeDiem

I played guitar at a friends 10 hours a day my first two weeks. It gave me alot of dopamine and got me through the hardest part of quitting.

Mike.n.Atlanta

You still do that Dale. ;o)

KOKO,

TerrieQuit
Member

I dance and sing when nobody can hear or see me. I love many knids of music. It all takes my mind off smoking and more that it just makes me happy!

Thanks for this post! Have a good day everyone!

Terrie

jjbob
Member

Music does it for me!!!  Thx Doc.   John 19 dof

Giulia
Member

I love this post!!!!

 

 

 

 

Deena-A-Yenni
Member

This was a good and informative post with an enlightening way to maintain one's quit.  Thank you.

geronimo
Member

One thing I've noticed since I quit 26 days ago is that I'm pretty flat emotionally. Nothing seems to excite me much (well ok, there's one thing) . I think I'm probably depressed. I'm having trouble concentrating and can't seem to motivate myself. Still stoked to be a non-smoker but starting to worry that I'm going to get fired before I get back to normal.

dds31453
Member

There is something wrong with me! I quit 17 days ago and the cravings are still a problem. At times I am tempted to buy a pack to "reward" myself for the next 3 weeks.I can't seem to get cigs out of my mind. I can be doing something that requires my time and attention but somehow, the thought of smoking is always there.

janese
Member
It been the same for me at 22 days they say it takes time so hang in there.
bonnie-12-28-14

Exercise for me.  Love it.  

AbasKid
Member

Very good blog. To me it points out that there are many ways to quit smoking. Quitting smoking is a very personal matter. I have to do what is right for me whether someone else agrees with me or not.

Dr_Hays
Mayo Clinic

Thank you all for sharing your own keys to stopping smoking.

To those who are struggling in their early recovery, hang in there!  Cigarettes are highly sophisticated drug delivery devices that change the structure of our brains to create addiction.  There are a number of factors that influence how each of us is impacted, but research has shown that regular tobacco use leads to the growth of billions of nicotine receptors (mainly in the reward center). 

While humans can clear nicotine out of our system within 3-5 days, these nicotine receptors, which are largely responsible for withdrawal and cravings, hang around for 6-12 weeks before our brain returns to normal levels.  While I hear you’re having some tough moments, know that each day you remain smoke-free, your brain and body are moving closer and closer to the healthy state at which they were meant to be.

As you know, I am here to support the Ex community.  I’d be happy to blog more about the neurobiology of tobacco addiction or any topic that would further help your goals of living a tobacco-free life.

trinityinaction
Thanks DOC, I would love more information on the neurobiology of tobacco addiction. The more I understand the easier it is to progress through the nicotine addiction process. TrinityinAction
red-head
Member

from red head i am my worst emeny i am so weak i feel soory for my self  time for me to grow a spine please everone pray for me

rokitrik
Member

I am also interested in more information neurobiology of tobacco addiction.

wellwoman
Member

Im just getting started today. I want to understand the neurobiology of tobacco addiction as well. Thanks for the music  key. I have all these music channels on cable TV and never listen to them. 

connie-jones
Member

Please do,you've already got my interest up.

kandandy
Member

havent figured how to seperate myself from the triggers. figure if I have to step away to have a cig I could step away and do something else for that 5 mins instead. thing is when I step back in Im still craving a cig!!!

lambmgr1
Member

This is really hard to say but I quit smoking four years ago and restarted less then a year ago. I don't know why I was so stupid to think I could easily stop again. My girlfriend smokes and has no desire to quit. I love her and the need to feel closer to her has started something again that I hate cigarettes. I gonna really try this program and with all the information here hopefully I can beat this demon. It's nice being a non smoker. I wish all of you the best. My quit date is the 16th.

carolynt
Member

I am trying to give up cigarettes after about 50 years of smoking.  I started tapering (w hich I don't even know if you all recommend that) over 3 weeks ago.  I had been smoking at least a pack a day.  I went to 4 a day for two weeks and now at 3 a day for almost a week.  I really can't find a program on this site that is laid out to tell us how to quit!  I'm  using Nicorette gum and it does seem to help, also breaking habits of when i know it will trigger me to smoke.  Can someone give me some real tips that will help?

mudder
Member

To red head , I'll pray for you , will you pray for me as well? I;m a great believer in prayer.

About the Author
An expert in tobacco use and dependence, Dr. Hays has authored and co-authored over 70 peer-reviewed scholarly articles and book chapters on various aspects tobacco dependence and its treatment. Since joining the Nicotine Dependence Center in 1992, he and its staff have treated more than 50,000 patients for tobacco dependence.