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How Will You Reward Yourself?

Dr_Hays
Mayo Clinic
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Like our favorite food, physical activity, or conversations with good friends, cigarettes give us pleasure by affecting the “reward center” in our brains.  While in our active addiction, few things can feel as rewarding as having a cigarette.  Or at the least, tobacco use becomes closely associated with other rewards.  Experts in the field of tobacco treatment attribute this to the cigarette being considered the most efficient drug delivery device in existence, a device that provides an intense kick within 5 to 7 heartbeats of being used.

 

As a person begins to smoke and cigarettes light up their reward center (no pun intended), they begin to associate smoking with other pleasurable activities such as drinking coffee, having a filling meal, and even having sex.  Smoking also becomes a treat after accomplishing a boring or difficult task.  When a person quits smoking, there body  often still expects the 10 to 20 or more rewards that cigarettes provided throughout the day. 

 

 

When stopping smoking, it is helpful to identify little ways to replace the unhealthy reward of a cigarette with things that give you personal and private satisfaction.  These do not need to be material gifts or even cost money; they can simply be something you enjoy.  Becoming an ex is hard work and rewarding yourself can be one way to support your goals of living a healthier life. 

 

Feel free to share with others in the comment section below how you have re-learned to reward yourself!

15 Comments
JonesCarpeDiem

Very timely.

(pass me a donut please?  🙂  )

JonesCarpeDiem

I always had music. I got into digital photography when I quit because it was inexpensive and enjoyable.

Dr_Hays
Mayo Clinic

@Dale  Art in any form can be such a reward...as can donuts!

Dr. Hays

Alyssadone
Member

I jump rope or do situps.  The reward comes after I am done, the breaths I can take are the reward, then I grab a donut! 🙂 

MarilynH
Member

I enjoy walking or any activity that gets me moving, I love chocolate of any kind and ice cream. 

mauijewel
Member

I just put my hand up to my nose and sniff what a reward! but I do like to eat so I'm trying to start other activities. I'm going to start at a yoga studio and go to some other local events here that I was never able to enjoy before because of my habit. I feel like I'm back in the world again not on the outside looking in. 

Barbara145
Member

In the beginning of my quit I desperately needed frequent rewards.  I smoked for 52 years.  I found that a strong small cup of coffee with real cream gave me pleasure and a "kick."  I did that frequently for about a year. 

YoungAtHeart
Member

I decided to consider  dark chocolate covered almonds a health food!!

Yes?!!!

Nancy

dpop
Member
I have my lollipops. They are more expensive than my Smokes but I do enjoy them.
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Lovin_Life
Member
I am going to buy the 3 in 1 jacket/coat I've wanted for a very long time and I like the hand to nose sniff reward idea.
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marijean
Member

I am craving Halos the vitamin C is good for me and needed.I do find myself wanting caramel and some candy.I have lost 20 pounds before I decided to quit smoking my spine is so bad it was well needed.One thing I am doing is trying to get my face in shape the wrinkles and aged skin I have from smoking and stress.I am studying oils I can use in combination that may help my skin.Time to cean up insid and out.Marijean

xsaffron
Member

Luxurious baths with scented epsom salts, and aromatherapy oils. A good book or blog (I'm in the tub now) to bring my senses back to life at the end of each day. I'd add wine to the picture, but not now (pregnant) and well even if I weren't I'd be too tempted to smoke so I'm going to hold off until after baby is born and think about it then. 

About the Author
An expert in tobacco use and dependence, Dr. Hays has authored and co-authored over 70 peer-reviewed scholarly articles and book chapters on various aspects tobacco dependence and its treatment. Since joining the Nicotine Dependence Center in 1992, he and its staff have treated more than 50,000 patients for tobacco dependence.