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Homework Helps

Dr_Hays
Mayo Clinic
3 11 171

If you think about it, most tobacco users have spent years, if not decades, developing behaviors and routines that incorporate tobacco use into important aspects of their lives.  This can include morning routines, driving, after meals, having fun with friends, as well as when under stress, feeling anxious, or even celebrating.  Cessation medications you might use can help to manage the physical and emotional withdrawal that comes after years of artificially stimulating the brain with intense spikes of free-based nicotine  However, equally important are the psychological and behavioral changes that require thoughtful examination and planning.  This pre-quit and ongoing homework is often necessary to maximize their chances of successfully stopping their tobacco use.

 

While it may have been a while since you’ve last done homework in the traditional sense, the energy and commitment you put in when quitting can go a long way toward staying smoke-free.  For some, homework can include finding ways to alter behaviors and routines that are associated with using tobacco.  For others who used to experience a strong hand-to-mouth connection with smoking, they might put more work into finding a temporary substitute until that muscle memory fades.  If a person’s smoking was more closely tied to negative emotions or stress, seeking out new stress reduction techniques and engaging in positive self-talk may be the key to their recovery.  These are just a few examples, but you get the idea.

 

The more good work and thought a person puts into this type of preparation, the better their chances are to quit smoking.  So whether you are considering stopping smoking or have a series of 24 hours under your belt, set some time to do some homework on the things you can do to strengthen your smoke-free life.  There are many great resources on BecomeAnEx and within this strong recovery community.

 

As we learn in school, when we do our homework, the odds of achieving the desired result increase dramatically. 

 

           

11 Comments
YoungAtHeart
Member

AMEN!  Preparation and planning play a huge role in a successful quit!

Nancy

elvan
Member

It's never too late to do a little more homework!

JonesCarpeDiem

Headwork.

candylance
Member

I'm doing headwork constantly and trying to ignore my husband's chain smoking.

Candy    4  DOF

scgquit
Member

Candy, you and I are in the same boat.  I don't know about your husband, but i do think my husband is envious of me for not smoking for over a week and a half now. 

joedice711
Member

same here..my wife tells me she is proud of me but not ready..at least we stopped smoking in the house a couple of yrs ago....  ..26 days s/f

Giulia
Member

Yup, the stronger your prep the better your chances of success!

Puff-TM-Draggin

Awwwww, Mannnnn!  Homewooork!

Umph!

freeneasy
Member

Great blog-failing to plan is planning to fail.

gotta-do-it
Member

I have tried quitting several times and my husband quit 14 yrs ago and no one in my family smokes except me. I am really making my mind up to quit this time. My health is not good and I want to feel better

quietkagome
Member

I agree with that definitely. I am looking more closely at my triggers and my main trigger boredom, and since I love to write, I have my regular diary which I write down my personal thoughts, life, and whatnot and now I have a smoking diary to write down how my day went with smoking. Although I am trying to quit again, I still have that smoking diary and it really helps a lot because I express myself very well through writing. 

About the Author
An expert in tobacco use and dependence, Dr. Hays has authored and co-authored over 70 peer-reviewed scholarly articles and book chapters on various aspects tobacco dependence and its treatment. Since joining the Nicotine Dependence Center in 1992, he and its staff have treated more than 50,000 patients for tobacco dependence.