Sarah82 Hey Sarah, I understand that it would be easier if the people in our lives would give us more support. But actually, they are not entitled to. If we want to quit, whatever it is smoking, or drinking etc, we have to have what it takes within us to do it. I stopped drinking in a household where people continued to drink. Against my counselors wishes, I didn't put them out, I just didn't give them power and control over what I chose not to do. It's going on seven years sober, but only 25 hours cigarette free! Stay Strong~