Good evening! Welcome to EX! I see that you have already met Sheryl! She is a good friend to have in your quit! I see that she has left you a link on how this site works! I will try to help you see why this site works! Often people come here with doubts and questions as to the effectiveness of a site like this! Please click on the link below to see a blog that I wrote about why this site works! See if being part of a community like this make sense to you! If it does, prepare to be successful! https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/blogs/pir8fan-blog/2012/03/29/why-this-place-works You can do this! We will help! Tommy