Laura6 Hi Laura, I just wanted to say Hi and that I think you are doing a great thing!! Doesn't it feel great to know if one of the kids comes running up to you that you no longer have that "I stink" thought when you give them a hug or kiss?? Been there! I wish you the best. Watch the Today Show on NBC this Friday (3/6) during 8 am segment, I think. They are having the 3 of us parents back on for a follow up on Parents that Vow to Quit. Good luck to you and stay strong!!