Doreen1 Hi Doreen, think I can relate to you a lot as I to am a Grandmother of four. My two little grandson 4 and 3 my boyfriend(whom one of them calls Papa) see them quite often even though they are in So.CA and we are in N.CA. Am the Mother of three daughters and my son just past away last May 2nd. He was 23 yrs old. My boyfriend smokes and it doesn't look like he is going to quite with me so, it's going to be a little bit more difficult. Yes, he knows I want to quit however, realize can not force this issue on him - he makes his own choices as I do. My grandsons are the cutest little boys you'll ever meet and I would like to be around for them. Would appreciate any encouragement you can throw my way:) Thanks! July55~