Sara-lee Sara lee, you have all the knowledge, spirit and grit in all the right places, so now, your right, it's time to just do it. We are all here to help you any way that we can, and you will allow. It does not matter how much you need to vent, whine, yell ect...we are going to stick with you. We have done this and believe me there are a bunch of us that are weaker and more insecure than you. You can even call me bad names if you want. I can take it, I've been married several times so I'm used to the abuse...LOL. Nothing has power over us enless we grant it the power. The only thing I ask is that you never quit trying. No matter what, never quit trying. And if you need to move to a warmer climate, COME ON DOWN...Arkansas is a great place. I was raised in the midwest...Wis, Mich, Ind. I moved south as soon as I got out high school. Do not miss 7 months of cold every year. We get about 7 week with "cold" considered anything under 50 deg. Keep in touch...for now HUGS from Ark...Jeff
