nanawendy Love Holden too! No man's land is a theory of Dale's (Jonescarp) - with many good points about the first 130 days of this journey. Check out his page at - https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/people/jonescarp.aka.dale.jan_2007 and in his "About Me" section you will see an explanation and some links to some blogs about it. Hope that helps!