Daily Pledge, Bonfires and Quit Celebrations: Traditions born from the members
Welcome - to the first, or hundred and first, or one thousand and first day of your quit!
In the beginning of our journeys we need to form a pact, make a promise, a commitment with ourselves to not do something we’ve done for perhaps many years. Whether it’s smoke, vape, chaw, snus - engage in some habitual form of nicotine consumption. Even NRTs can become addictive with constant overuse if directions aren't followed.
At first we can feel a bit like fish out of water, flopping around in a strange environment and we need to take a helping hand more often, vow more strongly and gather strength from the other fish around us. In the beginning we especially need to be very attentive to our commitment and hold ourselves accountable. But as we progress, that need lessens. Happily. But still we’ll come back once a day or week or whenever we need to (when that sudden emotional craving moment smacks us) in order to reinforce our commitment and keep our quits safe. Or simply to offer a hand in support.
Come here whenever you need to. Take the hand offered by the person before you. It could be the hand of someone on their first day. How thrilling is THAT! And each time you reach out with your other hand for the next quitter know that you're proclaiming “Yes, I can! And so can YOU!”
We’re all on this journey together. And there is strength and beauty in this shared commitment. Bravo to us all!
How to pledge:
As you go through your day you know that you have these two people with you and all of you are keeping each other strong. How cool is that!
If these help you - use them. If they don't - create your own. (Thanks to @JimTaddeo for finding them.)
Interested in volunteering to run the Daily Pledge? Send me a PM for more information.
Note: The above text has been provided by the EX Community from previously posted Daily Pledges and doesn't reflect the views or opinions of BecomeAnEX, Truth Initiative or the EX Team.
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I will be happy to take your hand @armchairwarrior and pledge not to smoke today. I will extend my other hand to the next person in line.
@armchairwarrior Welcome to the Pledge.
Barb
@vicky_k I am happy to take your hand and pledge not to smoke today. I extend my other free hand in support to the next person in line. Have a great day!
John
@Metroguy, thanks for your hand. I am happy to join you and pledge not to smoke today. I extend my other free hand in support to the next person in line.
Chuck
@chuck03104 I take your hand and pledge not to smoke today. I extend my free hand to the next person to take the pledge.
Stay strong and true to yourself, as I will stay strong and true to myself. We've got this.
@Morleyc Welcome to the Ex and the Pledge. Congrats on 3 days.
Barb
@trish4801 Thank you for your hand. I also pledge not to smoke/vape today and extend my free hand to the next person pledging.
(I had a bit of a "moment" this morning when I couldn't get into the site. Seems like my new addiction is seeing all of you standing with me in my quit 😁)
@ we can do this
@mac1984 Welcome to the Ex and the Daily Pledge.