Damnnn..... I blew it again. As positive as i try to be...it is hard once i get caught up in that moment. I've been holding my head down...now I'm ready to lift my head back up & continue the journey that I have already laid out for myself. I'm on day 3 & I need more help than i realized. I only have u guys for support. I need 2 find someone a friend, family, someone that i get a hold to....immediately..." when i'm in that crave moment".....but until then.....you all are my only source of support. Hope most of you are stilling hanging in there......Good luck...L.C.
I see you've had a few attempts since you started this process in August, huh ?? I firmly believe they are not failures...they are lessons. Life is full of lessons. When you learn what you need to know to accomplish a certain task, then you WILL succeed. The question is; have you learned what you need to, to finally succeed at quitting smoking !! If not, what will it take ????
I had a neighbor once who was 36 and had 4 kids under the age of 10. He smoked 2 1/2 to 3 packs a day, and had since he was 12. He had regular check-ups, and was always in "good health". He had a routine physical for work, and a chest x-ray. The radiologist noticed something on the x-ray he thought should be checked out; 2 weeks later Walt was in his doctor's office...he had more tests...he had lung cancer; but they thought they caught it early....he had treatment...3 months later, Walt died. Those 4 kids lost their father; Marlene (his wife) lost her best friend, her husband, and the father of her children.
True story !!!!
So what will it take for you to quit smoking so you are healthier...your wife won't lose it all - and your kids will have their dad ???? Do you have a daughter?? Don't you think as she grows up, she's going to fantasize about her wedding, like all little girls do...and what about her Dad dancing at her wedding ???
What about holding your grandchildren ??? You're only in your 30's, so you probably don't think about that !!!
I'm here to help you succeed in any way I can...give me a holler if you need me, or just want to chat !! And Good Luck !!!