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How affirmations work!

Affirmations are NOT the same as willpower. Setting up your willpower against a chemically altered brain is the same as setting up a title match between..

   Pee Wee Herman
Vs
Hulk Hogan
   Addiction begins with choosing to use, recovery begins the same way --  choose to quit . Addicts must take responsibility for their recovery. Own it. Having a self-inflicted brain disease does not absolve you of your behaviour. What is important is   dealing with the compulsion , the craving, that happens even when you know you're going to destroy yourself.

Can affirmations help? Yes, they can. Science is proving that when you change your mind, your brain physically changes too.

 

Addiction exists totally in your mind -- it is the result of your thoughts, compounded by altered brain chemistry and nothing else. To begin to overcome the cravings of addiction you absolutely must change your thoughts.

The fastest and most effective method to change your thoughts is by using affirmations. 

“Affirmation” is a declaration that something is true. Write or speak out loud positive affirmations about yourself, your life and your dreams. Identify general affirmations as well as specific. Reciting affirmations requires practice. Keep it up, muttering to yourself throughout the day if need be, and you will see a release of tension and anxiety while calm and confidence gradually floods your life giving you a positive attitude. Always remember: you are worth it!

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The Power of Affirmation



Affirmations are positive statements that describe a desired situation, and which are repeated many times, in order to impress the subconscious mind and trigger it into positive action. In order to ensure the effectiveness of the affirmation, they must be repeated with attention, conviction, interest, and desire.



Imagine that you are swimming with your Friends in a swimming pool. They swim fifteen rounds, something you have never done before, and as you want to win their respect, you want to show them that you can make it, too. You start swimming, and at the same time, keep repeating in your mind, "I can do it, I can do it...". You keep thinking and believing that you are going to complete the fifteen rounds. What are you actually doing? You are repeating positive affirmations. Most people repeat in their minds negative words and statements concerning the situations and events in their lives, and consequently, create undesirable situations. Words and statements work both ways, to build or to destroy. It's the way we use them that determines whether they are going to bring good or harmful results.



Often, people repeat negative statements in their minds, without even being aware of what they are doing. Do you keep thinking and telling yourself that you cannot do something, you are too lazy, lack inner strength, or that you are going to fail? Your subconscious mind accepts as true what you keep saying, and eventually attracts corresponding events and situations into your life, irrespective whether they are good or bad for you, so why not choose only positive statements?



Affirmations program the mind in the same way that commands and scripts program a computer. The repeated words help you to focus your mind on your aim, and automatically build corresponding mental images in the conscious mind, which affect the subconscious mind, in a similar manner to creative visualization.  The conscious mind, the mind you think with, starts this process, and then the subconscious mind takes charge. By using this process consciously and intently, you can affect your subconscious mind, and thereby transform your habits, behavior, mental attitude, and reactions, and even reshape your external life!



Sometimes, results appear quickly, but often more time is required. Depending on your goal, sometimes, you might attain immediate results, and at other times, it might take days, weeks, months, or more. Getting results depends on several factors, such as the time, focus, faith, and feelings you invest in repeating your affirmations, on the strength of your desire, and on how BIG or small is your goal. It is important to understand that repeating positive affirmations for a few minutes, and then thinking negatively the rest of the day, neutralizes the effects of the positive words. You have to refuse to think negative thoughts, if you wish to attain positive results. Make yourself a timeout signal with your hand ( perhaps crossing your thumb onto your palm.) This simple gesture will put the breaks on the negative thought. Then, immediately and fervently say the contradictory affirmation. At first, it takes practice to even notice that negative voice, then to practice the counter action, but soon there becomes fewer and fewer incidents of negative messages and more and more habitual repeat affirmations in your stream of consciousness. 



The power of affirmation can help you to transform your life. By stating what you want to be true in your life, you mentally and emotionally see and feel it as true, irrespective of your current circumstances, and thereby attract it into your life.

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TerrieQuit
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Dear Thomas, This positive afirmation is what I used to quit drugs and alcohol along with alot of willingness the belief in a power greater than my self and a whole lot of prayers. 3 1/2 years later when I decieded to quit smoking I used alot of the same stuff, I have used alot of positive self talk, but this blog reminds me of the impoortance of positive afirmation. I am doing this!

Thanks for this post Thomas. I don't know when you put it here but today I decieded to take a look

Terrie  61  DOF

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