There are people on this site who will relapse/slip. It takes alot of courage and humility to come back to this site, to admit what we did, and to start over again. It doesn't matter how long I've quit, I will never be cured from this addiction. It is cunning and patient and could take me back any time. If I ever do, I hope that people will welcome me back and give me the support I need. We've abused ourselves long enough, I don't believe that we should be abused, scolded, or shamed when we come back. No one has the right to judge someone else unless they've been in their shoes and totally understand where they are coming from. Even then, compassion goes alot further than pointing the finger does. We are here working for the same goal on a common ground.