I'm a gay man and for years I have found smokers really sexy. I know it's an odd thing to say (or post). I'm on day 8 of not smoking. I feel like not only am I dealing with the "usual" smoking issues (with coffee, after eating...) but also that I associate being "sexy" with smoking. I've been doing some self-talk saying, "Having cancer isn't sexy." Or "Smelling of smoke isn't sexy." I've even considered looking at smoking-related illnesses to try and convince myself. If anyone else can relate, let me know. Thanks!