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MarilynH
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(: Happy Mothers Day Weekend to all Moms :)

Mothers day for alot of us is bittersweet my Mom passed away 8 years ago on the 26th of January 3 days after her 72nd birthday I helped my Dad settle her into a Manor after she'd  been in the hospital for almost 5 months she had so many health issues Dads health was suffering I helped in every way I could my Mum was on oxygen 7/24 for the last year or so of her Life she quit smoking 6 years before she passed after she broke her hip, I was with her when she passed away I sent Dad home that evening because I was worried about him not realizing that she'd be gone that night  a nurse woke me up at 2 in the morning and listened to her heart and pronounced her gone I remember just standing there dumfounded looking at my Mom. This is going to be a totally different kind of Mothers day for everyone this year

 here's a picture of my Mum, Mason and I at the Manor my daughter Mandy took the picture it's the last one taken it was18 days before she died, I love the expression on her face I'd been chasing Mason up and down the hallways..... he wore himself out so we turned the TV on for him it was a wonderful visit especially with Mandy and Mason with me.

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elvan
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What a beautiful photograph & story of your mon’s passing. My mom has been gone for a long time now, 18 years. She was 79 & her daughters & granddaughters & one grandson were all with her. I have been with many people when they passed but being with my mother was unforgettable. The one grandson who was there was killed in an accident several years later. I like to think they are together. Both of them had the ability to make me laugh until l cried.  He was my sister’s son, l cannot imagine that loss. Happy Mother’s Day to you & ALL of us lucky enough to have that title.

♥Ellen 

MarilynH
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Thank you sweetie huge hug coming your way BUT very gentle.

sweetplt
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MarilynH Ah I remember you sharing this picture last year Marilyn...I love it...Thank you for sharing such a wonderful and sad time...I was feeling sad that I can’t see my mom for Mother’s Day...then I read your post and know I have to be grateful because at least I can talk to her on the phone...Your post helped me a lot, so my dear Marilyn...a very Happy Mother’s Day Weekend to YOU....

Sending a gentle hug...xoxoxoxo Colleen 

MarilynH
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Mandolinrain
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What a beautiful memory. So special, so sweet. Have a beautiful weekend dear one. Love and hugs to you

Also, Happy Mothers DaY to you one Mommas and grandmas and step Mammas/grandmas. Your ALL special, so enjoy your day

MarilynH
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Barbscloud
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Happy Mother's Day to all.  I also miss my mother ( along with much of my family) who passed at 97.  I had the opportunity to take care of her for several years before she passed.  I don't have any children, but that was by choice.  But I've always been the mother to many wonderful pets and I have gotten some wonderful mother's day gifts from them over the years.  I don't know how they got those credit cards.   I continue to celebrate all holidays in my own way.

I hope those that are separated from their mother's right now, will be able to reconnect soon.  I couldn't imagine being separated from mine. 

Barb

PS  High winds and it's snowing again!

MarilynH
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Happy Mothers day to you too Barb our furbabies are our babies too my furbaby Samantha Digger Jane Hartley always got me gifts and cards for every occasion I miss her but at least I had her for over 16 years here's a picture I'm going to take of what it looks like ugh! Grrrrr on our snow.....Merry Christmas Barbscloud Oops I mean happy Mother's day to you and to everyone reading this.

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elvan
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Happy Mother’s Day Barbscloud‌, hope your day is lovely.

Ellen