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Done777
Member

First day

Today is my first day quitting I think it’s been a full 24 hours since I last hit my disposable... I threw it away along with a brand new one I had just bought. I am full of emotions is almost as if I’m looking for an excuse to go through that trash can. I’m committed and trying my best not to. I keep telling myself I don’t want to be 60 years old and say “wow I wish I would have stopped vaping sooner” I also keep telling myself that I don’t want to die of a lung disease. I just want to live a healthy lifestyle I feel free but at the same time so sad I can’t wait to be nicotine free for a whole month. Maybe the urge will decrease intensity. I’m on the right track. I got this. I can do all things through Christ who is in me! 

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YoungAtHeart
Member

Welcome to our community!

 Congratulations on Day WON!

First of all, get a hammer and smash ALL devices and pods in your possession, then get the pieces out of your sight.   Keeping any available (even in the trash) is giving yourself permission to fail.

Although primarily a smoking cessation site, I have seen a huge increase in the number of people coming for help to break free from vaping. Research suggests nicotine may be as addictive as heroin and cocaine. Here is a great article with information about the products: https://www.nbcnews.com/health/vaping/vaping-101-what-know-about-e-cigs-addiction-illnesses-n1054981... There is further information here: https://www.becomeanex.org/quitting-e-cigarettes and here; https://www.lung.org/stop-smoking/smoking-facts/impact-of-e-cigarettes-on-lung.html .

E-cigarette users can get more nicotine than they would from a tobacco product — extra-strength cartridges are available, or the e-cigarette’s voltage can be increased to get a greater hit of the substance. I understand some pods equal the nicotine in a pack of cigarettes. Because it is available to you most anywhere, anytime, I believe it might be more difficult from which to break free than tobacco products - but it CAN be done!

Nicotine addiction is nicotine addiction - no matter the delivery device - and how to beat any of them is about the same. Every time you read :"cigarette" in the information I will give you, just sub "Juul" or “vape,” or “device.”   The one thing different I would recommend is that you first start to reduce the nicotine content of the pods.  Start with a lesser amount in, like, one in every four, then three, etc. until you are only using the smallest amount, or reduce the amount of nicotine in the pods over time That way the physical withdrawal should be more manageable. You might find useful information, as well, here: https://truthinitiative.org/research-resources/quitting-smoking-vaping/quitting-e-cigarettes.

I recommend that you educate yourself on what nicotine does to your body and mind To that end, I suggest Allen Carr's “The Easy Way to Stop Smoking.” . Vaping was not a concern when this was written, so you will need to sub “vape”as necessary. This is an easy and entertaining read which can be found online or at your local library. If you do nothing else to get ready for your quit, please do give this a read. Here is a video to inform you further about nicotine addiction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpWMgPHn0Lo&feature=youtu.be.

After you have completed the recommended reading, it will be time to make an informed choice of the quit aid, if any, you will use. If you go that route, I personally recommend the aids that don't let the addict control the dose such as the available prescription drugs or the patch. If used properly, gum, lozenges and inhalers are fine, but they need to be used only as a last resort after you have tried to delay and distract.   I have seen folks become addicted to them if they substitute them for every cigarette they used to smoke - just trading one addiction for another.  You need to start out with a plan to reduce use of them over time - which the patch does by decreasing the dose contained in them..  For the gum, you can start by cutting each piece in half, then in quarters, then sub regular gum of the same flavor in between, adding more and more regular gum.  For the lozenge, you need to start subbing a mint in between to begin, increasing the number of them over time.

It will be informative if you do the tracking and separation exercises recommended here on the site. As you track each device use, note its importance, and what you might do instead. Put each use off just a little to prove that you don't NEED a puff just because you think you do

The idea is to change up your routines so the vaping associations are reduced.  Drink your coffee with your OTHER hand in a place different from where you vaped. Maybe switch to tea for a bit.  If you always had that first puff with your coffee, try putting your tennies on right out of bed, going for a quick walk, then taking your shower and THEN your coffee! Rearrange the furniture in the areas you used to vape so the view is different. Take a different route when you are out and about so you aren't driving by your vaping supply shop. Take a quick walk at break time instead of vaping.


You need to distract yourself through any craves.  You can take a bite out of a lemon (yup - rind and all), put your head in the freezer and take a deep breath of cold air, do a few jumping jacks, go for a brisk walk or march in place, play a computer game.  Keep a cold bottle of water with you from which to sip. Don't let that vaping thought rattle around in your brain unchallenged. Sometimes you need to quit a minute or an hour at a time.  You will need to be disciplined in the early days to distract yourself when a crave hits.    Get busy!  Here is a link to a list of things to do instead of vape if you need some fresh ideas:
 https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/blogs/Youngatheart.7.4.12-blog/2013/02/25/100-things-to-do-instea...


The conversation in your head in response to the "I want to vape" thought needs to be, "Well, since I have decided not to do that anymore, what shall I do instead for the three minutes this crave will last?"  Then DO it.  You will need to put some effort into this in the early days, but it gets easier and easier to do.

Stay close to us here and ask questions when you have them and for support when you need it. We will be with you every step of the way!


 Nancy

sweetplt
Member

Hi and Welcome to Ex’s...Done777 

Congratulations on your Decision to quit smoking. Do the work and readings offered by YoungAtHeart above me, it will help you in this journey.  Being emotional, etc., is so much a part of this journey.  Keep busy and drink lots of water.  Also, keep close to the support site to get help and to read blogs on quitting, etc., It takes time to feel good in your smoke free skin.  We are here for you...and proud...You made Day 1 ... Day Won...~ Colleen 402 DOF 

Sootie
Member

Hello----so glad you have joined our community and congrats on Day 1! Yes...it will not only get easier but some day, you won't even be able to remember SHY you though smoking or vaping was so great.

You've chosen a lucky screen name. Someone with the user name done quit with me and a number of other people in November of 2009. Just celebrated our 10 th anniversary a few months ago.....he stopped in to the site.....still going strong.

green1611
Member

Congratulations....

It is nice journey to quit smoking.

All the best.

Mysticcat
Member

Congratulations. Quitting is the best you gift you give yourself. It’s hard work at 1st but so worth it. 
YoungAtHeart covered most everything. I just want to add that tootsie poos were my go to for every crave. It’s was brought out everywhere. Banana was my favorite. 
Again Thanks. 

Barbscloud
Member

Welcome and congrats on your decision to quit and two days smoke free now.   How is it going today?  We're here for you.  Just reach out.

Barb

Mindfullydone
Member

Congratulations! Glad we are on this journey! 67 hours in since last smoke for me. Hope it goes well but we're not alone. 

indingrl
Member

Yahooooooo 2 DAYS OF FREEDOM!!!!! WAY TO GO

maryfreecig
Member

How are you doing, done7777?