Someone who gets to you...to any one of us.
What have you done in the past to get past the slight (someone yanking your chain)? Me, I brood for a few hours, a day or two...try to sort myself out. Usually, I try to rise above it, eventually forgetting the slight--and I might decide to do a thing or two differently. I don't like getting into the kind of situation that troubles my mind in the first place, but haven't found that's possible.
Usually if I follow my principles, treat the other person with respect and even emotions, I get over what bugged me. I've never changed anyone else's thinking or behavior, though I'd rather say, at times, get the hell out of my face. So long as I behave in a fair manner, I've seen others near me come to about the same place.
If the person isn't capable of behaving, don't take it personally--realize they have a problem.
Just a few thoughts, take what you need, leave the rest.
One day at a time, yes you can.
