I'm so sorry none of us were there for you last night! My worst craves were in the middle of the night. I never understood this, because I had never smoked before if I woke up at night. So there was no memory trigger going on. Just my brain screaming for nicotine I guess. During the day, I always took a walk, or moved around however I could at the time to get through a crave. Couldn't do that at night without disturbing the family, so I did what you did and breathed through them. Wish I could offer you more than empathy, but glad you made it through 
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I cannot imagine trying to quit with a smoking partner. That shows how strong you are right there. Thankful my husband only "dips" and it is beyond nasty. I can tell you from previous experience that sleeping with the patch can give you some really whack dreams.
If you are having insomnia, I can tell you it DOES GET BETTER! My first month was the worst for insomnia but now it is only intermittent, but I have always had trouble sleeping at night so that might be some of me not the quit now.
So proud of you!!
Susan
Creative visualization............
Deep breathing (like your smoking, but NOT)
Stay in the "Moment" and distract your thoughts with something pleasant....
Like how each and every second your health is improving,
Your sense of happiness will increase day by day...
Your outlook on life will/is more positive...
DO NOT dwell on the old memories of smoking.....Why would you want to torture yourself?
..........the "Power" is within you.................I feel it.
You need to ban smoking indoors. Your partner should go outside and smoke. I would put my foot down with that one. Your quit is yours, and you should not have to be breathing in that stink a#% air and smell. Just saying.
Irish Rose 
