I've quit 3 times. Once for a whole year. But Ican't beat the constant trigger that living with a smoker brings. I so want to quit again, but the fear of failing yet again is keeping me back. I find myself irritated with him for not wanting to quit even though his health is failing because of it. I know it's all up to me if I want to quit, but I feel much like an alanon person. Don't want to leave the person I love, but I'm finding it harder to live with and am tired of beating myself up because I can't do it. Any thoughts?