So a while ago my friend cles me an said how did you stop smoking Felicia I said girl I went cold turkey she said how when you smoked since you was 13 I said I just did it and still fighting to stay smoke free I said do you want me to help you quit smoking I cant quit for you but I'll help you get there she said I think I am going to quit shes 34 y'all and she's been smoking about as long as I have so yeah I really believe our friendship is saved and I think I got through to her about not being friends that isn't all my mom use to dip yes I said dip an she seen me smoke all my life an she gave up her scoal I'm so proud of her she quit last Friday an just told me tonight I guess she sees the progress in me because I'm not gonna lie I literally get offended when someone asks to smoke at my house like I turn into a demon an fast not really just explaining how I act when someone wants to smoke here anyways my topic an discussion is this maybe her knowing I'm smoke free an seeing my progress she finally want a to stop smoking so don't give up on your smoking buddies just Influence them an threaten them with friendship jk jk Influence yes but postive ways an they will come around. Thanks y'all "Felicia" aka fee
That's great Fee....I don't know if I could lose my friendship though due to
a friend still smoking.
I was put to the test last weekend, when my sister in law came over to hang
out and play cards. While we were in a restaurant she wanted me to go outside
with her so she could smoke, and I told her that I couldn't. So my ex husband
went with her instead, and he has never smoked a day in his life, or ever went
outside with me when I had to do the deed (bless his heart for being in the right
place with her) . She had to go outside when we got back to our house, but I
just stayed inside while she went out on the patio to smoke. Finally I went out
with her towards the end of the night, and guess what.....You got it right if you
guessed that I stayed smoke free, not liking at all having to watch her
do it. I hope that she will also join me in quitting, but until she gets herself
straight in her life, I don't see it happening yet.
So I guess it's good to have someone who smokes come around for me, as it
just strengthens my mind to be a quitter forever.
Good for you supporting your friend and I hope that you encourage them to be
a quitter too.
Happy to be Free,
Sandy 16 DOF