This group thing is a bit odd. I can't figure out if anyone uses it or not. I don't know if you posted this yesterday or a year ago so it's hard to say whether it's worth answering or not.
I would love to help you and would be happy to answer all your questions. It's good to see that someone is truly interested in what would help those really going through it.
If this is current and you are still seeking information, please feel free to send me a note and I'll give you my thoughts,