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coreinstincts
Member

HELP, MIND won't stop

I have this problem! It's not what I would call a craving because it doesn't stop! My brain won't stop yelling at me to smoke. I use my vap and it still won't stop. I need a new brain until this one is fixed please. this needs to stop or I am in danger of losing my quit!

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Jennifer-Quit
Member

Well it is yelling for nicotine - and if I remember correctly you are vaping with zero nicotine?  Time is the healer.  We have all been there.  The only way out is through.  Get up and do something different  to break the routine or your thought pattern - take a walk, take a shower, watch a movie, do a puzzle.....

Give your mind an alternative to think about. Find something you're passionate about and if you can't do that maybe plan your next project in detail! Fill your brain with different thoughts and you can drown out the bothersome ones! Breathe! 

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MarilynH
Member

Get busy doing something anything at all and keeping your mind occupied as well as your hands will help you through the rough patches, what you are going through is normal so deep breaths and continue to move forward one precious smoke free day at a time or one minute or even one second but you must stick with your quit because there's definitely life after cigarettes but you must believe in yourself and know that you can and will be successful! 

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vanlil
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That is when I need to stop and make a Gratitude List.  Then pray for strength and be grateful for what you put on the list. Willingness without ACTION is Fantasy.

Lillian  (vanlil)

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elvan
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coreinstincts  Hey there, you can do this, believe it or not, you own your mind, not the other way around.  Tell it to STOP, yell it if you have to, take a cold shower, do jumping jacks, bite into that infamous lemon.  I remember well being obsessed with thoughts of smoking.  It was really challenging BUT, I did not smoke, I prayed for the mental obsession to be removed...I was actually astounded that it WAS!  I felt like a weight had been lifted...you might have to pray more than once and you might have to yell STOP or NOPE more than once.  YOU are in control, the addiction is having a tantrum, give it a time out.

Ellen

It's not like the vape nicotine or not could be a reminder of smoking, could it? 🙂

mjlibbie
Member

Hi Coreinstincts! A while back I tried to quit using 100% nicotine free cocoa cigs. I really thought that would trick my mind/body into thinking it was getting what it needed while I withdrew. My experience: I lasted 2 days, with my mind literally on overdrive, dwelling on absolutely nothing except cigarettes/smoking.

I re-grouped, set out an entirely different plan which I meticulously thought out and followed. I'm on Day 6 now (Ok...so not a big deal yet) and the experience has been night and day. I do think about smoking (hard not to as I live with a smoker), but I let the thought come in, briefly, and then I breath and tell myself "this is not painful. This is just that...a THOUGHT" and then let it go. Mentally picture it leaving your mind.

I'm not saying every moment/day is a walk in the park, but I've definitely quelched that screaming brain syndrome. Hope this helps a tiny bit.

~MJ

KMC56
Member

Been there and it ain't pretty.  I purged my closet, costume jewelry..and would get inspiration from Pinterest..my poor hubs never knew what kind of house he'd be walking into...or what I had planned for him to help with the house..like projects that would involve him!  .it amazes me now how busy I am now, and don't have time to sit..gotta keep busy!

coreinstincts
Member

Thank you all for the support. I went and worked with the puppies and sat at my non smok9ng friends house for a bit. That squished the voice for a bit. Now i am back home I need to work with my own dog to keep me more busy, if I ever cool down.