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OUT OF THE BLUE IN  NML

Blog Post created by virgomama on Dec 29, 2018

My daughter had a huge crisis in her life tonight.  She lost her job.  We were at her uncle's house talking out the situation.  Needless to say there was a lot of stress and upset.  For me as well.  It is never  easy when a child, even an adult one, is in distress.  She pulled out her cigarettes and said I need a smoke and stepped outside.  Boy did I want to follow her.  But I didn't.  I just told myself it wouldn't make the situation better.  And let it pass.  Yay me!!  Yes.  Still want one.  No it ain't happenin.  Still staying strong.

 

Out of the blue a stressful situation triggers an old reaction to stress.  Staying quit is a constant choice.  No matter what comes up.  I'm still choosing freedom. N>O>P>E  even walking through NML.

Cindy

 

 

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