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Thank you ~ Just a few things

Blog Post created by sweetplt on May 9, 2019

Hi all Ex’s...

 

Thank you to all that expressed such kindness under Dancingthrulifes post, towards me the other day.  You will note, I marked each of you as helpful.  Just so each of you know, I didn’t smoke.  I wouldn’t smoke, a thought isn’t an action.  I say often, this journey is so much more than just quitting.  It’s working through things in life we smoked through, the good and the bad.  I have had to work through having a toxic family...(not hubs and the dog)...but sister’s and mom...sometimes “letting go” is easier said then done.  The other day, it just got to me after speaking to my mom on the phone.  I had my pity party, licked my paws and went to bed that night and claimed tomorrow is another day.  Just like quitting smoking, I think I have it all figured out and then it’s mom’s day coming up and it’s not the same for me as it is for other’s.  Our society pushes things in our face that aren’t always true for everyone.  It’s ok...life is short and I am nice to mom and give her whatever she wants for the most part, but really my family is hubs and the dog.  I don’t want to have regrets...sometimes Life just “is what it is”...accepting it on it’s terms, but not always agreeing with it.  

Today is a better day and brighter day.   God has a plan...and I need to offer it up to him.  Have a good day all you wonderful peeps.  I learn so much from each of you...all my love out to each ~ Colleen 157 DOF 

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