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He stuck in his thumb

JonesCarpeDiem
4 7 97

and pulled out a plum

and said,

"What  good boy am I."

Memories connect us to times past.

Smoking connects us to memories.

We made many psychological connections while smoking.

This is why I feel it is difficult to quit.

      I remember ragged Elberta canned peaches from childhood. They were nothing like the hard sliced peaches available to buy today.

      Mostly, I remember having them at my dads parents.

They only lived a block away and we went to their house for lunch quite often.

      Another canned fruit we had frequently was purple plums. If you've ever had them, you'll remember them too.

      They are quite small, the skins are often split open from the canning process and they melt in your mouth. These are difficult but not impossible to find.

      Years ago, my brother found a cannery in Oregon that will ship cases to your doorstep. I tried to order them over a year ago but they sell out 3-4 months before they are even picked and canned. This year we ordered 2 cases on June 1 and they arrived yesterday. I immediately opened a can and relived the deliciousness of my childhood. There will be no plum shortage at this house.

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      Making new memories that replace the ones we made while smoking dissolves the connections to smoking. 

Time Is The Healer

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.