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When your thoughts are daring you to smoke...

JonesCarpeDiem
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You have options to shut them down.

      I discovered this on my third morning when the person I was quitting to influence to quit (at the request of his younger brother) walked into the patio  outside of the workshop where I was, smoking.

      Of course seeing him smoking, you'd expect me to want to smoke, right?

What came to me in that moment was the fact that smoking is a choice. It made me laugh.  "My thoughts weren't going to "gotcha" me," I thought. At that moment, quitting became a game instead of a chore.

   Through the next week, I laughed every time the thought of smoking popped into my head. After that week, the laugh came intuitively in place of the thought.

Beginning our quits is the real unknown

By breaking old patterns with ones that are new

Changes in thinking are seeds that will grow.

Make it a game, it will help you get through.

If you'll laugh at your thoughts, You'll be two steps ahead

You'll be ready to 3e4.jpg slippery thoughts in your head.

Make quitting a game, Not something you dread

Let cravings go by, Not fester and spread.

NEW QUITTERS

Even when you don't feel like laughing, do this out loud.

Say Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha and hear yourself.

You will feel so rediculous you must do it again.

Seriously, if you do this a few times, your whole outlook on quitting will change. 

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.