When I was on tour right out of high school, they put two of us in a room and rotated the schedule weekly.
There was one guy that nobody could stand. No one wanted to have anything to do with him let alone share a space for a week.
He Was A Whiner. He Whined About Everything.
The End Of Every Sentence Was A Whine.
When it came time for us to room together, we were in Manila.
After about two days of this I told him, we needed to talk. And we sat down and I asked him if he knew why people avoided him?
I explained that everything he said was said in a whine.
You know what? He never whined again and everyone liked him because of it.
That honesty CHANGED HIS LIFE.
He is a very successful and happy person in Los Angeles.
If You Can Be This Honest With Yourself, You Will Succeed.