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gualage
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gualage's Status Update on 06/20/2018

Today us meant to be day 6 of my quit. But he a Tuesday and today I had 3 cigs. Anyone else have a,rocky quit?
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Roller831
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Welcome!  I think may have had a rocky start or two or three.  I know I've tried quitting before and was not successful.  

There is a great blog out there for our new quitters.  For Our New Years' Quitters (and community members, too) .  You may also want to check out posts in Best of EX.  We are here to help you on this journey to freedom!  

 

Welcome!  I know when I first found this site, many Elders told me to read read read….and I did.  Elders are those with one or more years of being quit.  If you like what someone has to say, then you may want to read their blogs.  I have some listed below.

 

A list of our Elders  ELDER'S LIST 

 

So here's the thing.....and you may not like what I am about to say....and that's ok.  I get it.  You need to accept that this is an addiction.  Before you do that, it will be much more difficult to quit and stay quit. 

 

Read read read.  Do the steps to PREPARE yourself to quit.  Do the steps so you are PREPARED on quit day and for the days AFTER quit day.  

 

Some of the things I read in my first few days that helped me:

Dale’s Welcome to New Members My Welcome To New Members (10 Years Of Watching) 

 

Nancy’s Blog 101 Things to Do Instead of Smoke 

 

jonescarp.aka.dale.Jan_2007  Dale’s Blog What To Expect In The First Four Months 

 

 

JACKIE1-25-15  gave me the link to Alan Carr’s book, “Easy Way to Quit Smoking”.  I actually didn’t read the online PDF, but purchased a book on CD from Amazon and listened to it in my car over and over again for the first two weeks of my quit. 

 

Keep this site close and keep posting and asking for help.  You will get it.  You will get things you like and things you don't like, but don't give up!!!  We have been through similar experiences and can share our strength and hope.  We are here to support you!

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Some of us have a rocky start but this idea is to dig your heels in and start again with more determination, more commitment, more resolve and believing that you can do this.  First and foremost is education. Read the suggested material.  Have  plan, prepare and proceed.  Stay close.  You can do this.  On to day won again. 
JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Start first, by educating yourself about nicotine addiction because education is the key to a successful quit.  

Read: Freedom from Nicotine My Journey Home and Nicotine Addiction 101 

Here are the links: http://whyquit.com/whyquit/LinksAAddiction.html   and http://whyquit.com/ffn/
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Giulia
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Welcome.  Don't quite understand what you're saying here:  "But he a Tuesday and today I had 3 cigs."  What exactly happened on Tuesday?  We've all experienced rocky times in our quits.  How you learn to deal with those rocky times is part of the education you'll receive here.  Very important to read as much as you can.  When you commit fully it doesn't matter whether you have rocky times or not.  When smoking becomes not an option, you will rock the rocky times by not smoking through them!  Keep learning.  Keep reading.  Keep working it.  https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/   Glad you've joined us!
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elvan
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Many of us had to start over and over...the "trick" is to NEVER QUIT QUITTING...NEVER, no matter how hard it may get, smoking will not help anything but it will certainly do damage to your body as long as you keep it up.

​You have gotten great advice above, please pay attention and start over,  Welcome to EX,
​Ellen
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